Doing Rituals
On Memorial Day, one of my friends cat died suddenly and traumatically due to a pre-existing heart condition, I believe they said. I wrote a Cat Memorial Rite and performed it the other night. I tried to do a FB Live in our study group, but my internet connection wasn't very good, so after the third try, I decided to just record and post. The first attempt of the rite was a lot better than the recording. The recording was also very casual because I've known this person since high school. I personally prefer a little bit of humor in my death (and it's a decision that I don't just make on my own)--and with my friend, I asked about some silly things about her cat, Minion. Cutesy names, typical annoying asshole cat shit, good memories. I talked a bit about my experience with cats and spirits pets, as well as with grief. I tried to balance the silly with the serious. There was a lot of off-script talk about grief, too, and about pets and...